Yes life is all about how you make it !! its not that God made it this way . In life we have no control over majority of things like rain, accidents and seasons etc..... its all about how we react to a situation .... you can either crib or accept the reality .. Things can be better if u accept the reality and react sensibly.
At times we tend to overreact on situations and ruin our relationships .... it takes years to make a relationship successful and some harsh words to break it forever.
In life we really have no control over 10% of what happens to us like rains, accidents, mis-happenings .... rest 90% of is how we react to it .
what happens tom is how you react today .. if someone says anything negative about you don't be a sponge be like a glass and don't let things get into yourself.. dont let others to rule your life . .... its your life and way you react on there comments is how u take it ...lets not bother what other ppl think about you .... "kuchh toh log kahenge, logo kaa kam hain kehna " and enjoy life to fullest ;)